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Re: no babies?????
Posted: Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:48 pm
I think this lady is forgetting the sanctity of marriage and that, no matter what, her commitment to her husband should be far more important than her desire to have children. Besides, the fact she is actually contemplating divorce just because she wants something her husband doesn't, makes me question if their relationship would have been solid enough for children to begin with.
I suggest you encourage her first to accept her husband's wishes, forgive her husband (as opposed to carrying around resentment and bitterness toward him), and then focus on how she can fulfill this need for children. She could dedicate her interest to her nieces and nephews, become a big sister through the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program, volunteer or work at a daycare, even suggest to her husband the idea of providing short-term foster care for children.
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